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Heartwings Love Notes 824 - Be Careful What You Wish For

Heartwings says, "You cannot know how it will be to get your wish."

My parents occasionally visited friends who had a swimming pool. The water was invariably quite cold, however I was used to swimming in the ocean, which as any New Englander knows, is considered warm if it gets into the 60's. My parents did not swim in the pool. My mother did not like the cold water and my dad was more interested in conversation with their friends. I swam and played in the water to my heart's content and only reluctantly left the pool when my lips had turned blue with cold.

My grandmother belonged to a swim and tennis club on the ocean. In addition to providing access to the beach it also had a saltwater pool. I loved that pool as well and was always thrilled when my grandmother invited me to go there with her. They had very good club sandwiches too, crusts removed. What a treat it was for me. I felt elegant sharing a lunch with my grandmother in the rustic clubhouse. It was probably these two pools that implanted in my mind the desirability of owning one.

One day Stephen and I came to Grafton to find a home and the real estate agent showed us a lovely house with a pool. While we both liked the house and the land around it, I was particularly excited to actually have a swimming pool of my own. My unstated yet nevertheless real wish had come true. Little did I know the outcome of that fulfillment. At first the pool seemed wonderful. Then the reality of how much it cost to maintain and how much work that was began to emerge. There was so much we did not know about pools, especially old ones, and how to keep them in pristine condition.

People swam with seawater still in their suits. Difficult to eradicate black mold grew in the pool. The sides began to crumble. We patched it as best we could. The finishing touch came when friends brought their teenaged sons over and the resultant hours of cannonballs loosened the old, outdated concrete lining so that it flapped back and forth. We inquired about repairs and were told it would cost as much as a new pool: in the tens of thousands. Faced with that we opted to eliminate the pool, filling it in. Thus ended the dream, resulting in a lesson learned: I am not as eager to make wishes as I once was. However, when I do, I am very careful to consider what their fulfillment might entail.

May there be no surprises if and when your wishes do come true.
 

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