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Heartwings Love Notes 753: Holiday Customs Make the Time Special

Heartwings says, "The accumulated memories of our joys over the years enrich our holiday celebrations."

Despite the fact that Christmas catalogues have been in the mail since before Thanksgiving, giving gifts is only one of the many
rituals and traditions associated with the holidays. Most of us have much to do as they approach. There are the cookies and other
special foods to think about. The entertaining of friends and family is another ritual whether it is at the office or in the home. This is
not confined to the holidays themselves but takes place throughout the time from Thanksgiving to the New Year.

Many holiday customs have been accumulated over the centuries from a variety of different countries and traditions. In America now
more than ever we have a melting pot of nations. While many of us grew up with primarily European customs derived from a
combination of pagan, Christian, and Hebrew stories, myths and historical remembrances, the addition of African American, Spanish,
Indian, Asian, Middle Eastern and related peoples from other parts of the world has enhanced our holiday observations.

Like Christmas tree ornaments taken each year from attic or basement, families pick and choose what to keep, which to use, and
what to discard. The little paper things children made in kindergarten, the funny ornament Aunt Bessie gave us, the fragile glass bird
carefully passed down from generation to generation are all part of the decorating rituals. Fashions may change and what looked cute
once may look rather dated in the light of a new generation. The same is true of observances and rituals.

Regardless what we choose to do or not to do as the holidays come around, what really matters is the meaning of the act, the
memories associated with it, and the good feeling it brings to the heart. For some it's midnight mass and singing carols that warms
and enlivens, for others the Chanukah or the Yule or Solstice feast brings a gladness that renews the spirit. At the darkest time of
the year, as we participate in them, the bright memories that surround our holiday customs bring a sense of light and joy to the
heart.

May you enjoy your holidays and make them happy for your loved ones.
 

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Blessings and Best Regards,
Tasha Halpert
 

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